Don't take it personally. How could you know? It seems unfair. And maybe it is. You go to a doctor for a yearly physical, and suddenly there's a tumor in your gut. Nobody's fault. Tumors are built in. Believe me, necessarily so. At least here, you get to keep going. For now. Good news: It's benign! Okay, take a deep breath and move on. If it'll help, a cliche can sometimes make you feel better. This one applies: There's no reward without risk.